One trick I've found to be helpful is to not have so many different credit cards. Personally I only have one, and it's typically in the back of my wallet for emergencies. Yes, Christmas shopping was an emergency. The sad part here is that it was almost paid completely off. Then there is my mother. She has four different credit cards. This is just asking for trouble. Why in the world does anyone need this many credit cards? You'll just end up charging them all up, and that's exactly what she did. In the last year she resorted to a debt free consolidation loan. I helped her out by getting online with her and doing a bit of recon work. Once we were able to find the lowest rate, she applied for a consolidation loan and the wheels were in motion. I was stoked when she received this new debt free consolidation loan and cut up all four credit cards. Now she does without the hassle of four different credit card bills every month. Her single loan is all she grapples with and it's small enough to handle with ease. The best part is that her debt free consolidation loan has a low fixed interest rate. This is what we all want.
Stop falling for it! How many credit cards do you really need? If you want to keep one around for emergencies, I totally understand. But, don't use credit cards on a regular basis. You will only dig yourself deeper and deeper into a hole of debt. If you can't afford something, just wait. This is the prudent route. Once your credit card payments are obliterated by a debt free consolidation loan, you'll be able to relax again.